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Should You Have a First Look? Pros and Cons for Your Forest Wedding at Lost Hill Lake

What is a First Look? A First Look is a private moment before the ceremony where the couple sees each other for the first time, away from the crowd. It's emotional, intimate, and (bonus!) gives you more time together on your big day.

Pros of a First Look at Lost Hill Lake

More Time Together

Your wedding day flies by —why not extend your time as a couple? A First Look lets you enjoy those quiet, emotional moments before the whirlwind begins. And surrounded by towering walnut trees or along the peaceful lake, it’s a truly cinematic moment.

Stunning Photos in the Best Light

Photographers love First Looks! The natural morning or early afternoon light in our forest creates dreamy, glowing portraits. Plus, our venue’s diverse terrain means you can capture photos in multiple backdrops— The Walnut Grove, the glamping resort, the lakefront, and the popular Thinking Rock among countless others —before your guests even arrive.

Nerves? What Nerves?

Seeing your special person before the ceremony can calm those pre-aisle jitters. It’s a grounding moment that often helps couples feel more relaxed and present during the ceremony. Afterall, this is YOUR day!

More Time with Guests

Knock out portraits early and enjoy cocktail hour with your loved ones. This is a huge perk if you're hosting a weekend wedding and want to maximize your time socializing. (Perfect for the Canopy Package and the Weekend Wedding Package!)

Cons of a First Look at Lost Hill Lake

Breaks Tradition

For some, nothing compares to that classic moment when the couple locks eyes during the walk down the aisle. If this tradition is important to you or your partner, a First Look might not feel right.

Earlier Start Time

Including a First Look can mean hair, makeup, and prep all start earlier. At Lost Hill Lake, we offer on-site getting-ready suites to make this easier —but it can still means an earlier morning.

So… Should You Do a First Look?

Ultimately, it comes down to your priorities. Want more photos, less stress, and a quiet moment together? Go for it. Prefer the tradition and drama of the ceremony reveal? That’s beautiful, too.

At Lost Hill Lake, our team is here to help design a timeline that fits your vision —First Look or not. Either way, we promise your forest wedding will be unforgettable.

Let Us Help You Plan the Perfect Timeline

At Lost Hill Lake, every wedding package includes a dedicated on-site coordinator to help your day run smoothly —from the First Look to the last dance.

Whether you're all-in on a First Look or still on the fence, our experienced team is here to help you weigh the options and design a timeline that fits your vision, priorities, and style.

Let us know you’re considering a First Look, and we’ll help you build it into your custom wedding day schedule —seamlessly and stress-free.

Because at Lost Hill Lake, we believe your day should feel as magical as the setting itself.

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